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Love Magick: Self Care, Charms and Spells for Members Only

For members only. We all want to be loved and be able to give our love in return. That’s why love spells and love magick are some of the most sought out forms of magick on the internet. Whether you are single and looking for love, or in a committed relationship and looking to spice it up, this article will help you learn how to be a sexy witch. But, hey, let’s be honest – you already are a SEXY witch! Just look at you!

1. Own Your Power

Love magick and love spells are powerful and work in many cases; HOWEVER, they often don’t tell you a big secret. That you don’t NEED a love spell to begin with. All you need to do is own your personal power. People come to witches and conjurers looking for love spells, usually out of desperation. They are desperate to get someone back. They are desperate to find a mate or keep a mate faithful or break a relationship apart. The truth is – if you owned your personal power and saw how wonderful YOU are, you would never need a love spell to begin with!

2. Self Love Spells

I’ve found the most effective love spells to be ones that focus on the self. Why? As the old saying goes, “you can’t truly love another until you love yourself first.” Wonder why people keep leaving you? Wonder why you keep running away from relationships? It’s because you don’t love yourself. Start out in love magick with performing some simple self love spells. Sit down and look at yourself in the mirror. Write down 3 things you like about your looks. Then write down three things you like about your personality. Remind yourself of those things every day. Eventually, you will find yourself beautiful and love will blossom.

Take a bath, witch! Love magick first starts with self care and self love.

3. Self Care

I know. I know. We see it everywhere these days – the self care trend. BUT it’s a good trend for a good reason! See self love section above for the reason. Here’s the thing – you’re not going to attract the right man or woman if you don’t take care of yourself physically and spiritually. What are you NOT doing that you should be doing for your physical health? I don’t mean to be that person, but exercise and a balanced diet is essential. Want to look good and feel sexy and be a sexy witch? You have to WORK for it! Start out small and work your way up until you have the body that makes you feel good about yourself! No one is going to do that for you. When you feel good, you look good, and vice versa. Then guess what? Other people will notice. When you exude confidence, you exude sexiness.

4. Love Charms

Okay, enough of the lectures. Time to give you the goods. Are you single and ready to mingle? Good. Wear patchouli oil when out and about. A little goes a long way. Patchouli has a long history of being a perfume that attracts a lover. Wear clothing that makes YOU feel good but also draws the eye to the right places on your body. In addition, wear or carry a piece of rose quartz for a woman, jade for a man.

For those in a committed relationship looking to amp up the romance – sprinkle jasmine flowers under the bed. Eat avocado, bananas and strawberries. Men – drink catnip tea to drive your woman wild (catnip attracts cats a.k.a. pussy).

5. Simple Candle Love Spell

There are candles you can buy shaped in male and female form, typically for sale at botanicas and conjure shops. These can be used to draw a lover to you, no matter your sexual orientation. Anoint the candle in rose oil and roll in dried, loose leaf damiana. Light on a Full Moon and state exactly what you’re looking for in a lover. Repeat for 3 full moons until your lover comes to you.

6. Honey Jars

Honey jars are a traditional hoodoo / conjure method of drawing love to one’s life. This is a powerful form of love magick, so be careful! By placing a name paper in a jar of honey, sealing it with a lid, and burning a candle on top to “seal” in the magick, you will draw a lover to you. There is a lot to this method of love magick, so please do your research thoroughly before attempting!

7. Invoke Love Deities

Invocation is a powerful (and sometimes dangerous) ritual in which a person invites a deity into their body. Sounds scary, right? Well, many religions have some form of invocation and witchcraft is no exception. When invoking deities, be careful which deities you choose. This isn’t for a beginner witch. You should know how to cleanse, cast a circle, release and ground the energy before ever attempting an invocation. That being said, invocation of love gods and goddesses can be a strong way to draw someone to you. Love deities include: Aphrodite, Freya, Eros, Hathor, Bast, Erzulie Freda, etc.

A Word to the Wise…

Love magick is something that shouldn’t be taken lightly. I guarantee you can find hundreds of stories online of people who did love spells willy-nilly and they backfired in some way. I’m not telling you what to do, your magick is your choice. But I recommend trying to work on yourself and loving yourself FIRST. Then if you feel you still need a love spell, do a general love spell that draws the right kind of love into your life, rather than casting a love spell on a particular person. This almost always backfires and can even lead to dangerous situations. Remember, we at the Otherworldly Oracle love you!


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